The essence of all addiction is the experience of powerlessness over a behavior, resulting in unmanageability. The addict is out of control and typically experiences tremendous shame, pain and self-loathing. The addict may wish to stop their addictive behaviors – making promises and many attempts to stop – yet repeatedly fails to do so. The unmanageability of an addict’s life can be seen the consequences suffered, for example:
Loss of relationships
Family break-ups
Financial difficulty
Job/career loss
STIs and other health problems
Sexual or physical assault
Depression, despair, loneliness
Guilt, shame, remorse
Fear, anxiety, hopelessness
Jail or prison
Suicide or homicide
If you are concerned about the consequinces of your addictive sexual behavior, you might benifiet from the SAA program. Find out more about the program here.